EMDR
The human spirit is stronger than anything that can happen to it.
–C.C. Scott
Painful experiences from childhood and later in life as well traumatic events seem to get locked into our nervous system with the original images, sounds, thoughts, feelings, physical sensations, self-perceptions, etc. Frequently, we do not remember consciously exactly what happened, especially when painful experiences occurred at a young age. However these locked-in experiences stored in the brain get triggered in the here and now, especially when “reminders” occur. Reminders are current experiences, which are similar to the earlier experiences and trigger part of the stored information. This triggering can create a great deal of internal discomfort, which seems to come out of “nowhere” and is difficult to control. Some people may experience a great deal of inner tension, physical pain, painful memories, low self-esteem/unworthiness and negative thoughts. Our way of functioning in the world, especially our self-worth, how we relate to others, and how we react to different situations is related to such locked-in material. EMDR procedure seems to unlock the nervous system and allows the brain to reprocess these stored experiences, helping people neutralize negative feelings and sensations and thereby feeling better about themselves and the past. (adapted from Shapiro, pp 120-121).
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WHAT IS EMDR?
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a powerful new method of doing psychotherapy. To date, EMDR has helped an estimated half million people of all ages relieve many types of psychological stress.
How Was EMDR Developed?
In 1987, psychologist Dr. Francine Shapiro made the chance observation that eye movements can reduce the intensity of disturbing thought under certain conditions. Dr. Shapiro studied this effect scientifically and, in 1989, she reported success using EMDR to treat victims of trauma in the Journal of Traumatic Stress. Since then, EMDR has developed and evolved through the contributions of therapists and researchers all over the world. Today, EMDR is a set of protocols that incorporate elements from many different treatment approaches.
How Does EMDR Work?
No one knows exactly how EMDR works. However, we do know that when a person is very upset, their brain cannot process information as it does ordinarily. One moment becomes “frozen in time,” and, remembering a trauma may feel as bad as going through it the first time because the images, sounds, and smells, and feelings haven’t changed. Such memories have a lasting negative effect on the way a person sees the world and relates to other people that interfere with his or her life. EMDR seems to have a direct effect on the way that the brain functions. Normal information processing is resumed, so following a successful EMDR session; the images, sounds, and feelings no longer are relived when the event is brought to mind. What happened is still remembered, but it is less upsetting. Many types of therapy have similar goals. However, EMDR appears to be similar to what occurs naturally during dreaming or REM (rapid eye movement) sleep. Therefore, EMDR can be thought of as a physiologically based therapy that helps a person see disturbing material in a new and less distressing way.
But Does EMDR Really Work?
A number of scientific studies have shown that EMDR is effective, for example, the prestigious Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology published research by Wilson, Becker, and Tinker in December 1995. This study of 80 subjects with post-traumatic stress demonstrated that clients improved significantly with EMDR treatment, and further study showed that this beneficial effect was maintained for at least 15 months. The findings from this and other studies indicate that EMDR is highly effective and that results are long lasting. For further references, a bibliography of research on EMDR may be obtained through EMDR.org.
What Is The Actual EMDR Session Like?
During EMDR, the therapist works with the client to identify a specific problem to be the focus of the treatment session. The client calls to mind the disturbing issue or event, what was seen, felt, heard, thought, etc., and what thoughts and beliefs currently are held about that event. The therapist facilitates by directional movement of the eyes or other bilateral stimulation of the brain while the client focuses on the disturbing material, and the client just notices whatever comes to mind without making any effort to control direction or content. Each person will process information uniquely, based on personal experiences and values. It is important to understand that there is no way for the client to do EMDR incorrectly! Sets of eye movements are continued until the memory becomes less disturbing and is associated with positive thought and beliefs about one’s self; for example, “I did the best I could.” During EMDR the client may experience intense emotions, but by the end of the session, most people report a great reduction in the level of disturbance.
How Long Does EMDR Take?
One or more sessions are required for the therapist to understand the nature of the problem and to decide whether EMDR is an appropriate treatment. The therapist will also discuss EMDR more fully and provide an opportunity to answer any questions about the method. Once therapist and client have agreed that EMDR is appropriate for a specific problem, the actual EMDR therapy may begin. A typical EMDR session lasts about 90 minutes. The type of problem, life circumstances, and the amount of previous trauma will determine how many treatment sessions are necessary. A single session of EMDR is sufficient in some cases; however, a typical course of treatment is 3 to 10 sessions, performed weekly, or every other week. EMDR may be used within a standard “talking” therapy, as an adjunctive therapy with a separate therapist, or as a treatment all by itself.
What Kind of Problems Can EMDR Treat?
Scientific research has established EMDR as effective for posttraumatic stress. However, clinicians have reported success using EMDR in treatment of the following conditions: posttraumatic stress, phobias, panic attacks, performance anxiety, addictions, stress reduction, dissociative disorders, complicated grief, disturbing memories, sexual and/or physical abuse and anxiety disorder.
Questions?
This information is courtesy of http://www.emdr.org. Additional questions and concerns may be addressed on their website.
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The hardest one of all is the one I am right in the middle of
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See, I grew up with perfectionist parents, so many conditions needed to be fulfilled for me to feel worthy of love
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I have felt disappointment, doubt, anger, and sadness
But today I woke up with a new emotion: compassion
I feel for you all
You have had your own shackles:
“Be strong,” .….boys don’t cry,” “ work hard to provide”….,
We keep hammering these values in our boys
But what about the quality of the heart?
What about making room for them to FEEL
If men are not available to themselves, they cannot be available to us
The answer to it all is the Divine Feminine
Can we rest in the arms of the Divine Mother?
That feminine energy that is pure love and acceptance
That part in us that knows about unconditional love
With every disappointment and failed relationship
I find myself finding refuge deeper and deeper in the arms of the Divine Mother
As I start my drive to Olympia for a weekend of ecstatic dancing
I know that I will be relishing my connection to the Divine Feminine this weekend
Healing is a long meandering road
I feel grateful to have found the kind of path that speaks to me
May we all find our specific path to the Divine Mother
May we experience her love in all of our cells
May we hear her special and unique message whispered in our ear.” Caroline Sabi July 2018
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A poem to all the unavailable men I have met in my life:
“It was hard to recognize how unavailable you were
It was hard because that’s all I had known growing up
What feels familiar feels normal
But there is nothing normal about being unavailable you see
Can you see that patriarchy has robbed us all of the juicy and tender connection full presence can provide us?
I have been learning many lessons so far in my life
The hardest one of all is the one I am right in the middle of
How to show up fully, warts and all, and accept and love the other exactly as he/she is
See, I grew up with perfectionist parents, so many conditions needed to be fulfilled for me to feel worthy of love
I am ready to throw them all out
I feel it in my bones that I am worthy of love just the way I am
I have gone through so many emotions lately because of you unavailable men
I have felt disappointment, doubt, anger, and sadness
But today I woke up with a new emotion: compassion
I feel for you all
You have had your own shackles:
“Be strong,” .….boys don’t cry,” “ work hard to provide”….,
We keep hammering these values in our boys
But what about the quality of the heart?
What about making room for them to FEEL
If men are not available to themselves, they cannot be available to us
The answer to it all is the Divine Feminine
Can we rest in the arms of the Divine Mother?
That feminine energy that is pure love and acceptance
That part in us that knows about unconditional love
With every disappointment and failed relationship
I find myself finding refuge deeper and deeper in the arms of the Divine Mother
As I start my drive to Olympia for a weekend of ecstatic dancing
I know that I will be relishing my connection to the Divine Feminine this weekend
Healing is a long meandering road
I feel grateful to have found the kind of path that speaks to me
May we all find our specific path to the Divine Mother
May we experience her love in all of our cells
May we hear her special and unique message whispered in our ear.” Caroline Sabi July 2018
Art: Flora Aube
#healingintowholeness #patriarchyhurts#expressyouremotions #healingjourney🧘🏾♀️ #portlandtherapist
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